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About

Meet your surgeon while you can still say no.

My Surgery My Choice exists to put one missing step back into medical travel: the conversation that should happen before anyone books anything.

01 Why this exists

The decision is made weeks before anyone asks you to decide.

Your operation is not a product you order. One person does it — with their own judgement, their own way of explaining things, and their own honest view of whether you need it at all. That person matters more than the hospital's photographs, and more than the price.

So you should meet them properly. And you should meet them while you are still sitting at home.

Most people do it the other way round. You send your reports to an email address. A price comes back. You book flights, take leave, and meet the surgeon for the first time the evening before the operation.

Now imagine that in that meeting you hear something new. Another option nobody mentioned. A risk that changes how you feel. A cost that was never in the number you were shown. What can you actually do about it? The flight is paid for. The leave is taken. Your family has arranged the whole week around this. Saying let me go home and think is no longer a real choice.

That is not consent. That is a formality signed by someone with no way out.

A consultation from your own home costs you nothing but an hour. You hear the plan. You ask what else is possible. You ask what it will truly cost, and what could make that number rise. Then you close your laptop and think about it for a week — with your family, and with your own doctor.

If you go ahead, you go ahead having chosen. If you don't, you have lost nothing at all.

A family of three generations talking together at home in the evening, papers on the table.
The decision belongs to the people in this room, and it needs more than one evening.

Ask the surgeon about the money too

Cost is not a rude question, and it is not a separate conversation to be had with an office. What will be done, what it costs, and what happens if it does not go smoothly are all one discussion.

A surgeon who can talk about money as calmly as about anatomy has told you something useful about how they work. So has one who cannot.

Who is behind this

Dr Himanshu Verma — MBBS, MS, Fellow in Vascular Surgery. Practising vascular and endovascular surgeon, Delhi NCR.

Every clinical opinion on this platform comes from a consultant who treats patients in that field week in and week out. We are doctors first; the platform exists to reach people who cannot walk into the clinic.

02 What we are, and are not

The distinction the whole brand rests on.

We are

An independent consent layer

An education and clinical-opinion service that sits between the patient and the treatment decision, on the patient's side of it.

We are not

A price-comparison site

We do not rank hospitals by cost, publish package tables, or compete on who quotes lowest. Price is one input into a decision, and the least informative one.

We are not

A hospital or a clinic

We own no beds, no theatres and no laboratories. We are not owned by anyone who does.

We are not

Pretending we work for nothing

International treatment prices carry a referral margin, built in by the hospital and present whether or not anyone refers you. Where a patient reaches a hospital through us, a share of it comes to us. We would rather say so than claim a purity nobody in this industry has.

03 Our rules

Seven commitments, written down so you can hold us to them.

1

Benefit and risk get equal weight

Every piece of content and every consultation covers both. Risks are ordered common first, never rare-first for drama or buried at the end for comfort.

2

Alternatives are always presented, including doing nothing

An opinion with only one option in it is not an opinion. Not treating is a legitimate choice and appears in every plan.

3

You get the transcript

The record of your consultation belongs to you, unedited, whatever it says.

4

Disagreement is shown, not smoothed over

When two panel specialists differ, you see both opinions as written. We do not merge them into one comfortable summary.

5

How we are paid is stated up front

Including the referral margin that sits inside every international treatment price. It is on the home page, not in small print — and the doctor consulting you takes no part of it.

6

No guarantees of outcome, ever

We give likelihoods. Anyone in this industry offering certainty is selling.

7

Your records are yours

Nothing goes to a hospital or facilitator without your specific permission, and nothing is recorded without your consent.

04 Who answers you

The surgeries patients most often travel for.

These are the fields where patients leave their own country, because the operation, the volume or the technology is not available at home. Tap any one to see why. For each case we bring in a consultant who practises in that field week in and week out, and you are told exactly who you will be speaking to before anything is booked.

01 Cardiac and paediatric cardiac +

Bypass and valve surgery, and congenital heart disease in children — few countries run a standing paediatric cardiac programme, so babies travel or wait.

02 Cancer surgery +

Complex resections and reconstruction. Better local diagnosis often outpaces local surgical capacity, so more cancers are found than can be operated on at home.

03 Orthopaedics +

Joint replacement, revision surgery and sports reconstruction, where waiting lists and implant cost drive the decision as much as expertise does.

04 Neurosurgery and spine +

Brain tumour, aneurysm and spinal surgery, which need high-volume centres doing the same operation regularly.

05 Liver and hepatobiliary transplant +

Living donor programmes, which most countries do not run at all.

06 Bone marrow transplant +

Leukaemia, thalassaemia, sickle cell and myeloma. Months of treatment rather than one operation, so the decision to travel is a bigger one.

07 Fertility and IVF +

Repeated cycle failure, genetic testing of embryos, and advanced laboratory work a small local unit cannot offer.

08 Urology +

Stones, prostate surgery, uro-oncology and kidney transplant.

09 Vascular and diabetic foot +

Limb salvage and revascularisation before amputation, and dialysis access.

10 Paediatric surgery +

Newborn and congenital surgery, which needs dedicated paediatric anaesthesia and intensive care, not just a surgeon.

11 Plastic and reconstructive +

Reconstruction after cancer, burns or injury, and microsurgery.

12 Cosmetic surgery +

Elective and self-funded — and the field where expectation and result diverge most, which is why it belongs here.

13 Something not on this list +

ENT, bariatric, ophthalmology, dental, rheumatology and the rest. Tell us anyway: your problem goes to someone who treats that problem, or we say we cannot help.

No platform has a resident specialist in every field, and one claiming otherwise is describing a call centre. What we have is a growing panel and a wider network of consultants — and a fixed rule: your problem goes to someone who treats that problem. If your field is not yet covered, we will say so rather than improvise.

05 Holding us to it

If we fall short, we want to hear it directly.

If a consultation did not meet what this page promises — the transcript did not arrive, alternatives were not discussed, you felt pushed towards a decision — write to us and it will be read by the founder, not by a support queue. Tell us what happened and what you would like done about it.

Start with a conversation, not a quotation.

Send us your case and we will tell you honestly whether a consultation would help you, and what it would involve.